Learn to be cheerful

Living in this complex society, and facing  intense work, and subtle relationships, what we feel is not only tired, what we feel more  is that this community, this life, and this relationship among people is much too complex . Because of the complex, we are afraid of being cheated, being hurt, and losing too much. Because of the complex, we are greedy, we want to have more, we are racking our brains, and even unscrupulously wanted something without paying anything. In fact, the world is originally simple and what is complicated actually is we ourselves. Most of the troubles are given by ourselves. Let’s just be simple and we won’t have that much troubles, we will be relaxed.

A lot of things in the world can not be a perfectionist, could not understand many things, which should be as detached, the past is irretrievably lost, should learn to distraction distress, but lenient to others, strong-willed. Community has its inevitable trend of development, everything will not have too much luxury, expectations the higher the greater the disappointment. Look farther, learn easy-going, learning contentment, a person can be contented, his spirit will be bright, happy, and one I do not know enough people who often have Ziku, anxious, Zican, low self-esteem, self-confusion, resulting in self-destruction .

Life can not be smooth sailing, in the face of life challenges, we can not escape, only to face frankly, in the face of possible ups and downs, even if is no walk in front of the road, there are waiting for you to face the ordeal, open the the tribulations of the door, there must be a brave smile, face up, do not fear, to find Once the storm is beautiful. In fact, years is a very fair deal for everyone, even without sharpening how many smart, but also gives us some experience. When we feel is no longer young, I know that have more wealth, learn to treat themselves, learn to calm and cheerful, learned to adjust their attitude, we have learned how to enjoy life every minute. 

Learn to be cheerfull and we’ll have a wonderful spiritual world and a nutty life. Learn to be cheerfull and each of our sunrise and sunset will be more beautiful, more brilliant and more brilliant!
Let us learn to be cheerful!

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Friendship is not an item, but rather a feeling

I never agree on a friendship ending up with breaking up.

You can take a paper of various colors back and then tear it from the boundaries of the colors. Why can you tear it? Because it is an item. Friendship is not an item, but rather a feeling!

     From the moment we become friends with each other we begin to paint bright colors on a “friendship paper” continuously. We are unable to put it back and tear it up, because that piece of paper and those colors are painted with each other’s sincere hearts which are invisible and can’t be touched,   but we can feel the intentions of its existence.

     We all felt had brought the warmth of friendship and happiness. On your birthday, they will send you a gift, but the most important thing is not the share of gifts, but rather into the gift inside the share of friendship; in when you’re not happy, they will comfort you, but the most important thing is not that comforting words, but those words into the inside of the share of friendship; in when you are cold, they will buy medicine for you, but the most important thing is not to those drugs, but rather into the inside of the share of friendship drug. Is this all in all good faith, in each other, said after conflicts have taken place to break off relations when the other party can hand to you to be back? You can hand them back to the other side do? Can not be! If can, then the other side can come back you can back each other, respectively, can only recover the share of each other’s gifts, and you have comforted each other as well as buy back the same medicine to each other, but unfortunately, even if you agree ” Dear John, “the word does not need to say, because you have to each other from beginning to end has not been a friend of you has never been the feeling among the existed.

      Although friends may not have to die for each other, but we can run for the friendship. We do not haggle over trifles, and we laugh and enjoy ourselves together.
Meeting  by chance is the beginning of  the edge, and being friends is the outcome. I hope that we all understand that friendship is not an item, but rather a feeling!

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Lock of soul

We do have the experience of leaving the keys behind again and again, although nobody admires us. Obviously it is a trouble thing, of course, it is better than losing the keys. How can we forget the fraid of being reproached even punished for losing the keys in nightmares of our childhood?

However, today we still can’t leave out this kind of trouble thoroughly in our life. On the contrary, it seems that more and more things need to be locked, whatever the bank book at home or women’s jewelrys. How can we feel it safe to put a bike in the yard without a lock? We must add a lock and fix it to an iron pillar or handrail of stairs. How can we say which lock is worthless before the steals happen?

Keeping a look out carefully make everybody have heavy keys in his pocket. We even can’t leave keys for a few minutes. No wander that somebody has called keys as one of human organs properly. Even people who are more carefulless aren’t strange about this organ, they are sure to be familiure with which key unlocks which lock.

No one doesn’t touch this organ in his lifetime.

However, what I want to say actually is that in fact, something which has been locked is something people treasure such as diaries or love letters. Missing brought by simillar collections to out heart is much heavier than bankbooks and jewelrys.

 One of my friends entrust me seriously before she went out for travel, “ I put my diary here, if some accidents happened to me, please burned it for me.”

When people think about death with their heads clearly, they will realize more about what is indifferent and what worths appropriate protection. There is naked soul in diaries, throwing all the decorations away. Isn’t such collection heavy enough?

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