the hardest gift

diamonds are the hardest naturally occurring mineral and a diamond ring is what every woman dreams of displaying on their finger. It is also a material with unique physical qualities because they can hardly get damaged by another substance. Therefore the luster and its polish will stay forever.If a man then backed out of the marriage, the woman could be perceived as “damaged goods” and it was for this reason that financial retribution was sought.This tradition of keeping the ring originally equated to a symbol of financial compensation, rather then any romantic notion.

Before the 1930’s it was common practice for women to be able to sue for “Breach of Promise” if the wedding did not take place after a betrothal. This was because women were still expected to be pure at the time of marriage. However many would indulge in sexual relations during the engagement period because it was considered safe.

 At some point further down the line though when the dust has settled, the subject may well come up. If the split has not been done amicably then it can in fact end up being a serious bone of contention. However, in the UK at least, despite the emotions tied up in the process, the law on who owns the diamond engagement ring is clear.

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